Mum: Just missing the times we shared together Stevie B, the laughs on a Sunday eve with you and Jacques laughing at nothing!!Your savaloy and pickled eggs at the chip shop, your smelly feet(Jacques come a little bit whiffier than yours tho) and the txts from you and so many more things our darling son. Have been to see Coling Fry tonight and it was a good show. It helps to make me realize that there is life after death and I so hope that you are looking after all the youngsters that seem to be leaving this earth plain lately.Love and miss you so very much Mumsyxxx
Sue Hankins: Just read the words below and wanted to leave a message. Have bumped into Jacques a couple of times at BSB - what a good looking chap! Steve you're someone I'll never forget. Teachers aren't allowed to have favourites, but as Bruce says 'you're my favourite'! With your fab personailty, good looks, humility, brains, level headedness , and from such a smashing family you were bound to be popular!! I hope the good work from your foundation carries on. x
Dad: Another tough day son, 4 years since your burial day, really miss you Stevie xxxx
Sara and Clive: Another year has passed since that sad November night. Our thoughts are with your mum dad and Jacques and just hope you keep looking over them and keep them strong cos its so tough for them today and everyday. xxxx
Jacques: 4 years today you left us mate, and everyday is still so very hard!i think of the good times weve had together and feel that these years im coming through now should be spent with you and going drinking when im 18 soon, and it just seems such a waste. Will never be the same Stevie, but will try and think of the great times and when i look at your smile it brings a smile to my face. Keep mum, dad, craig, laura, ross and all family and friends safe and strong mate. Love you so much x
cousin sarah: stevie, yet another year passes and still missing you so much xx never forgotten loads of love xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Dad: Love & miss you so much Stevie xxxx
Mum:: Your little brother looked so crazy on Sunday Stevie lined up with all the serious runners at the Great South Run, but hey he's taking after you with his dressing up, and he certainly did you and himself proud, completing the race in just over an hour was a brilliant achievement and he was certainly our super star that day,felt so proud but so sad when we walked away and Toploader started playing!The other event The Boxing Do on the 17th was an amazing success, and all down to the hard work of your lovely mate Craig(why he cant get a job, I will never understand??)I hate this time of the year, and Monday is the 4th Anni of the day we lost you, I find it so hard to believe that 4 years have passed by. Dad and I will go to Chi, Jacques will go to school and keep busy. You are always in our hearts and constantly in our thoughts. The Foundation prospers each year in your name!!Please keep an eye on Ross, as his operation was this week, and take Ryan under your care.Big hugs & XXXXs Mumsy
Mick: Hi Stevie, another year passes and as usual you are in my thoughts at this tough time. Please be there for your family and help them over the next few days and beyond. We all miss you at Christchurch FC, I hope you have met up with Buzz and shared a laugh RIP Mate x.
Jacques: Hey Stevie, just thought i would leave a message. Completed the Great South Run on sunday in 1 hour 4 minutes mate and finished 147th out of 21,000 people so was pretty happy with that. Did the run in my pink ballerina outfit and got plenty of wolfwhistles and cheers all the way round. The last 2 miles was SO tough running into a terrible sea wind but i felt you next to me mate, urging me on to the finish and i was so happy to finish that race for you Stevie!Hopefully if i collect all the money in i will have raised over 750 pounds from the run and get over the 90,000 pounds barrier, so not long to go until the big 100,000 mark now!!!!Monday is gunna be tough for us mate, but especially Mum and Dad so look after them mate and keep them strong!!Love you so much Bro!!xx
Joe Dibben: Hi Bernards, havn't seen you for a while. Was thinking today about the fact that it's almost 4 years since the accident, and I wanted to let you know that I will be thinking of you guys next week and take care x
Mumsy,: Just wish that you were still here with us Stevie B, thinking of the time when you started Uni 4 years ago, we were so very proud of you. The Boxing Night is fast approaching and Im sure that it will be a great night as Craig has organised it! Jacques is venturing into the Great South Run this year(no training as yet!)but Im sure he'll do just fine, running in memory of his dear brother.Felt you around me in the kitchen tonight, just hope that you are watching over the Christchurch footie team also tonight, it would be great if they had another good win!!!Love and miss you so very much dear son. Love Mumsyxx
jacwas friend: hey there, unlucky for me i never got a chance to meet you, but i go to bsg and ive recently made friends with your lovely brother Jacques. i just really wanted to say that i honestly think its wonderful what your family have managed to do with the foundation, and i cant imagine the amount of strength that must take, its a great acontinuation of the life you should have lead and i give my utmost dmiration to you and your family. Jacque is one of the nicest boys ive met and by the looks of things he really looks up to you, so its a shame i never got to meet you as well, but continue to be proud of him, hes doing brilliantly and will continue to do so, making a positive name for himself as you have done. i hope he still remembers me when hes playing for england!! bless you all.
Jacques: Missing you tonight Stephen after doing your video tribute, makes me realise how much i miss you and of all the good times we had and just wish i could still have them with you now. Love you mate xxxx
Mum: Love and missing you so very much darling boy. Please keep watching over Craig-esp with his interview this week, and our lovely Laura having another test done today, and of course your not so little bruv who has to work hard this year to achieve good results. Im sure you are watching over us all, the little robin has been very evident around me lately. With all my love your daft Mumsyxxxxx
Mick: Havnt been on for a while Stevie, but you know there isnt a day goes by when I dont think of you. Jacques is coming on fine and I know he is going to be a firt teamer with us soon, he is obviously down a bit with his results, he ho you know and I know he will get there, we are all missing you still at CFC and I hope you and Buzz have met up, we will be there for your family and mates and the Foundation will carry your name on, miss you son. Mick
Jacques: Hey mate, feeling a bit down with my AS results and what have you so i thought i would leave a comment. I was pretty disappointed with my results, got b c d u. wasnt very good, but i will be retaking some of them to hopefully push them up for my A levels, but i just wish you were here to take the mick out of me and keep me smiling when im down. I got into the next match for Hampshire mate, so im hoping to follow in your footsteps as always as you were so talented at so many things! Please keep giving everyone strength Stevie especially Mum and Dad and everyone else. And some good news that Ross is going to be a dad again in February!!love you so much!xxxxx
Mum: You have been in my thoughts alot Stevie B and just wished that you were here to give Jacques some support with his A's results which he did ok but a little dissapointed on Biology,(the subject you found hard also). I know that he will strive to do better this coming year. Had Sarah Matt and kids over tonight, they remind me of you two when you were young, full of beans and very bright!!Off to the Midlands tomorro and dwn to Brighton Mon.Love and missing you with all my heart. Mumsyxxx
sara saunders: as another season starts just thinking about you. Your fantastic foundation has sponsored our football coaching school with 2 portable inflatable goals for which we are truly grateful. Such a shame you are not here to see all that is being done in your name Steve! You are truly missed by everyone who knew you. Keep looking over all your family and friends. SARA and CLIVE SAUNDERS
Mum: You are always in my thoughts Stevie B. Please keep a special eye on your friends esp Craig,Laura and Ross!Jacques doing well, he's growing up so quickly now, keep guiding him in the right direction my lovely. Love and hugs as always your old Mumsyxxxxxxxx
Laura: Hi Stevie, missing you so much. Sorry I haven't wrote for some time...but you know that i am always thinking of you!! Just wanted to tell you you're amazing and that the 3 of you are legends who will be a part of my life always. xxxx
Mum: Just celebrated my ?? Birthday, had a lovely 3 days of celebrating Stevie B, the only person that was missing was you darling boy!Would give anything to have you back in our lives, sending you big hugs and lots of xx's Lv and miss you so very much Mumxxxx
Mum: Stevie B you would have been so very proud of Dad, Jacques, Craig and all the lovely folk who completed the Road to Bayeux bike ride!This time last week they had completed their second day of cycling and all had some pretty sore rumps and legs, but all came safely back home on Sunday Im glad to say! THANK YOU so very much again guys a brill effort from you all!!Wondering whats on the agenda for next year now, has Dad got some other crazy ideas?watch this space.......Love and missing you with all my heart lovely boy, had a few tears this week, little things setting me off. another fatal car crash claiming a young life locally this week!Love and miss you always Mumsyxxx
Mum: Thinking of you lots Stevie B, cant believe that the Uni guys have now finished at Chi, where did all those years go??I just keep thinking that you must be in the Uni in Heaven and that you are taking care of all the young ones up there. Laura came by with Simon to see us this eve as they were staying in Bournemouth, it was so nice to sit in the sunshine in the garden and talk. As usual time goes by too quickly. Jacques is off playing polka again tonight and has been quite successful, maybe caus its your polka set and you always had the lucky touch. Missing you so very much. Not long to the bike ride to France, Dads silly idea actually becoming a reality eh!!Good on all of them who are taking part. Sending big hugs and kisses to you Lv Mumsyxxxx
Ellen: Thinking about you a lot lately with this whole crazy bike malarky going on!im rubbish,not doing the cycling but will be thinking about the pain the guys are going through in your honour,haha!still missing you tons!x
Jacques: alryt mate, hope you are well!just thought i would say a little hello.lost my cup final against salisbury but buried a pen mate, and although lost your tournie on the weds it was a great night, and dave did really well organising it!and i won the cup final on the friday for the reserves 5-0 against bashley and i played left back..was a good night except i had a migraine lol typical!got my exams now mate, bit worried how they will go but will give it a bash!!And i have also won centre court tickets to the mens final at wimbledon mate:Dshould be good!look after ma, pa, craig ross laura etc mate, and claire allen and her family in their difficult times atm!love you Stevie xxxxxx
Mum: Its been a busy week with football Stevie B!Watched Jacques play for Xchurch Mon nite from your stand, a good game with Jacques scoring a great penalty, but sadly they lost 2 - 1 in the end. Went to AFC Bournemouth Tues nite to watch your mates team + Jacques team + Tennis lads compete against each other. It was so good to watch all the lads together and very well done to Dave for organising it. Poor Dad ran his legs off for over 2 hours as there wasnt anotha ref, but he didnt have to run too much. It was so nice to see your brother, and mates together again supporting us! It really doesnt seem possible that 3 1/2 years have now gone by without you Stevie B, we miss you so very much words cannot express the void we feel in our lives. Keep watching over Craig, Ross and Laura and your lovely brother of course. Sending you Love, Big Hugs and kisses Mum & Dadxxxx
Jacques: Hey Stevie, missing you mate!got my cup final tonight at Hurn Bridge against Salisbury and would be amazing to win and get that trophy under your stand!Bought some new moulds yesterday and then it rains all day today so dont think the copas will be out, but the world cups are ready and prepared haha!Came off the bench for the first team against VT last thursday mate and did ok and got the reserves final on friday so is going well at the mo. Got the tournie tomorrow so will hopefully manage the team to victory at dean court lol!look after mum and dad Stevie and keep looking down on everyone!love you lots Jacques xx
Rides: Hey Stevie, Been thinking about u recently mate, time has passed but memories are still with me. The sun is shining down on us today , and for some reason it brings back a happy memory of a cartain day and game we played in. We had Cowes at home . The weather was lovely and i remember u and me buzzing about the prospect of playing on the lush Hurn Bridge pitch! The game was amazing , it finished 6-6! Some great attacking play but not so good defensively! I'm sure u scored , i did too. Cant believe we scored 6 at home and still did'nt win the game! Missing u mate, look after our little Buzz up there. I'm sure you've both formed a formiddable strike partnership already! Rides xx
Mum: Your crazy Dad is embarking on the 3 Peaks Challenge this weekend with 12 of his work colleagues!Think its gonna be a hard challenge, but spoke to him tonight and said that he was looking forward to it!!Think his legs & feet will tell a different story come Sunday. Hope that the lads raise alot of money for the little girl that they are raising funds for! You are in my thoughts so much lately honey, thinking that you would be coming to the end of your studies. Keep watching over Claire Allens sister Stevie, our thoughts are with her family at this difficult time.Hope to see Laura very soon. Love and miss you so very much with all my love Mumsyxxxx
Mum: Another year begins without you Stevie B and we got through our 4th Christmas with no U to share our days with, always so very hard at this time of the year. Had our first Foundation meeting last week, and so much is being planned for 2009. Lets hope the 1st event in Feb-The Fun Run turns out to be as good as last year, not sure if Jacques can do a double in winning again this time,(his legs are alot longer)but Im sure he'll try his best. Looking forward to seeing what Laura and gang are gonna turn up as this year, gonna take alot to beat the Smurfs! Congrats go to Craig as he has just heard that he's been accepted for an internship for 3 months, working for a cancer charity in London.We will miss him popping over but we are so pleased for him. Its a new start for me also, as at long last Ive got job offer and started this week - I truly believe that it was with your help Stevie, as kept hearing your song by Top Loader around the time I was going for my interviews. We love and miss you
Bree Norton Smith: Thinkin of you today Stevie B.Don't want to be sad but there's so many people who love and miss you still, wish you were still here. You should be celebrating your birthday...22's pretty scary. Anyway Miss you hey. x x x
lizzie jane fackrell: Even though I never met u, u sound amazing and if ur brother is anything to go by then it must be true. r.i.p xx
Jacques: Love you mate!Try and make 2009 as good a year as possible for everyone, and keep mum dad ad all the family and friends safe and happy buddy!!School after xmas hols tomorrow so should be real fun lol! missing you loads mate! love you xx
Jacques: Merry Christmas to the best brother i could ever have!!Although you may not be here in person you are still with us in spirit mate!!keep looking over everyone and make sure mum and dad and laura etc all have as good an xmas as possible!!Xmas isnt the same without you, but we will celebrate your life and treasure the great memories we have of you! Love you xxxx
Mum: Happy Christmas my darling boy. Missing you with all my heart. Nan and I have been shedding a few tears today. That little robin was at the church merrily singing away, so knew that you were watching over us. Give some special attention to Lyndia and family and look after Mark for them, as its gonna be a hard time for them to get through. Love and missing you so very much. Mumsyxxxx
Mum: Mum and I went up to your grave today darling. We were talking about lots of good memories about your childhood, and getting a little sad. Then the little robin appeared in the tree, singing beautifully. Just know that your around lovely boy. Look after Mark Stevie, such a sad time for Lyndia and family.Missing you so very much. Love Mumsyxxxxxxxx
Mum: Lvly words Andy, and as Jacques is entering the same era of your lives you talk about(quite frightening how time goes by)I can see such similiar times happening in his life + he's had the strong presence of you all in his life also!Stevie loved this time of the year and it is so sad that he won't be around to celebrate it!As the tears begin to fall we will raise a glass to you Stevie B and think of how much you packed into your short life and of how proud you made us!!With Love from your old Mumsyxxxx
andy hewittAKAgman!: always in my thoughts buddy, been 3 years now, gone so quick can still remember the last time i spoke to you.. never ever thought it would be. Us bournemouth boys were so tight and we still are!.. and the fact ur not there means that there will always be a someome missin. we all still joke about the funny stuff that we did growing up.. the laughs we had at school and sixth form.. 1st 11 aways games on the mini bus, and at the weekends where we were too young to go out properly but we wernt the type kids that hung out on street corners so we all used to get together at someones house (mine a lot of the time!) and just to crazy stuff a laugh.. it sounds so simple but was such a good time in my life.. no worries just jokes.. anyway i could fill this whole tribute wall up so better wrap it up! always thinkin of ya and cant wait to give jacques current team a hidin in the charity footy! :) much love, andy x
Lisa (cousin): Miss you everyday Stevie B!!! Always thinking of you and will always love you. God Bless love Lisa x
sarah (cousin): woke this morning thinking its been three years since i had the awful news about your accident, still just as upsetting to think about x miss you still so much. love you always x look after your mum, dad and jacques x
MumMumMisMum: Missing you more than words can ever say our darling Stevie B!Sending you a big hug, lots of kisses and all our love. Mumsy, Dad and Jacques
H: Thinking of you all today Stevie..keep looking after each other. xxx
Jacques: 3 years has past somehow mate, but i still miss you and love you soooooo much!You were an absolute legend and you should still be here with us all!Life is not the same and never will be without you mate! love you always xxxxxxx
Adam (cousin): 3 years down the line mate, and the pain is still as bad as back then. always thinking of you and all the memories we shares as kids at christmas's etc. the family is missing a key person but we will all be reunited in another life mate. love and miss you! look over your mom, dad and jacques as they do so much hard work! Never forget You!
Mick Ryan: Hi Stevie, as we approach that horrible date my thoughts as you know are with your Mum Dad and Jacques, you already know my thoughts are always with you. It is amasing too see just how many people stop and take a feew minutes and read and gaze at the photos and tributes displayed in the Stevie B corner in the football club bar. I just wish as everyone does, that you were still here with us in body, I feel your presence so often around me especialy at the football club. Keep looking down on your family and the rest of us Mate, till we meet again.
dave: miss you as always mate. keep watchin over us, you'll need to give me some help to get through the cycle!keep watchin over the family as well, they're so strong and put so much work into everything they take on, and im sure they will continue to support your dreams of making sports better and making better people!i know you're with us always mate, much love X
sara saunders: This is carried on from last msg . Just wanted 2 say will be thinking of all ur family this weekend. Life is so precious and until u suffer heartache pain and loss no one knows what u are going through . I pray each nite to thank god 4 saving my son exactly 3 years ago and to keep my other son safe in Australia . Steve will look over u all and keep u safe im sure . Lots of luv Sara Clive and family XXX
Jacques: hey mate missing you so much!!you should still be here laughing and joking and partying and i look at laura and jamie and thin how strong they are!Im so proud of you and love you so much!keep looking after mum and dad, as they rae so strong, make sure they are safe!love you..smelly!
Ellen: Hey dude,thinking about you alot today...still missing tons!just wanted to say hello really.xxxx